Saturday, December 13, 2008

It's Time I Change For a Better Tomorrow

While I was having my meal today, I suddenly realised my life is kind of boring. I realized I forgot to live, I just managed to survive. Everyday what I do is planning for what to eat for breakfast, for lunch, for dinner, for myself and for my children..... and working .....



One more thing I forget is to be a nice and well-mannered person.
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Am I that bad???? Lets see!
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If well-mannered girls are those who :
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Do not offend others
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Do not become angry easily
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Do not turn evil for evil
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Do not monopolize conversation
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Do not interrupt when someone else is talking
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In brief, they are :Kind, Friendly, Respectful, Courteous, Agreeable, Patient, Civil and Generous.
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Now let me rate myself:
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1. I've lost my patient. Unlike those days I was really patient. (-1 point)
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2. I am always not agreeable with others. I always have something to add or to correct about others opinions. (-1 point)
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3. I am too straight forward in giving comments about others. I meant good without realizing it is hurting. (-1 point)
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4. I often scold people in my heart, *%&X! #?!* instead of openly, whenever someone irritates me. (- 1 point)
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5. I am not very friendly to my neighbors who bullied me, who tried to kick me out of my own home. (-1 point)
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6. I talk more than I listen. (- 0.5 point)
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The result?............
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****10 - 5.5 = 4.5 ****
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7 comments:

xin said...

sometimes it doesnt pay to be kind, and dont forget, survival only for the fittest! you can only be a well-mannered lady when:

1. you are so filthy rich u have nothing to worry about, hence, the world is beautiful

2. you don't have to worry for anything, it is even ok not to work (only if u have plenty of money), hence, the world is beautiful

3. you have someone to protect u from all the harms, hence, the world is beautiful

4. etc

So, how the heck can we be so well-mannered all the time????

Jacky Chung said...

well mannered... Human beings make mistakes. Sometimes you are forced to be a bad guy

Gallivanter said...

Don't be too hard on yourself, we all go through blips of frustration in our lives...

zrestha said...

time for me to calculate my -point

foongpc said...

It's OK to be a little bad sometimes. We are not perfect : )

Monica said...

let's go yum cha! ;-)

Tekkaus said...

Sometimes we have to be bad to be good, don't you agree? =)