MERRY CHRISTMAS &&&&& HAPPY 2009

Oooop! Christmas tree without presents. Wait, I am still waiting for santa to send the presents.

Here comes Santa!

HO HO HO MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!

I Am What I am

I would give only what I could give

Many a time I have tried to be

What others want me to be - and failed

I cannot be all things to all people

And it was not until I recognised that in myself

And saw the limitations of my own capacities

That I began to be able to accept myself

and give up some of my quilts....



I cannot run a mile in 5 minutes

Nor soar like a gull in the morning skies


And there are mornings when


The day seems to stretch into disaster

And there would always be those times, those days

And if I recognise them not as failures and weaknesses

But part of my basic humanness

And the right to be imperfect

I will never have to be afraid again .....



That is one thing I have learned

And it has helped me now

At least to stand alone

Without the need to clutch and cling for support.......



Still,

It would be good if there is someone

It is not fun to be alone .... sometimes

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It's Time I Change For a Better Tomorrow

While I was having my meal today, I suddenly realised my life is kind of boring. I realized I forgot to live, I just managed to survive. Everyday what I do is planning for what to eat for breakfast, for lunch, for dinner, for myself and for my children..... and working .....

One more thing I forget is to be a nice and well-mannered person.

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Am I that bad???? Lets see!
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If well-mannered girls are those who :

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Do not offend others

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Do not become angry easily

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Do not turn evil for evil

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Do not monopolize conversation

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Do not interrupt when someone else is talking

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In brief, they are :Kind, Friendly, Respectful, Courteous, Agreeable, Patient, Civil and Generous.

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Now let me rate myself:

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1. I've lost my patient. Unlike those days I was really patient. (-1 point)

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2. I am always not agreeable with others. I always have something to add or to correct about others opinions. (-1 point)

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3. I am too straight forward in giving comments about others. I meant good without realizing it is hurting. (-1 point)

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4. I often scold people in my heart, *%&X! #?!* instead of openly, whenever someone irritates me. (- 1 point)

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5. I am not very friendly to my neighbors who bullied me, who tried to kick me out of my own home. (-1 point)

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6. I talk more than I listen. (- 0.5 point)

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The result?............

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****10 - 5.5 = 4.5 ****

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Help, I Am Starving!

See what I have done to my pot again?

This is not the first time I throw away my pot. It is the 3rd times.
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So, I have found a few solutions :
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1. No more boiling soup.
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2. Buy cheap pot, so I dont feel the pinch when I need to throw away..
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3. Take a chair and sit at the kitchen and wait until the soup is ready.
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4. Use a big pot and put lots of water and let it boils for as long as I am busy.

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5. Dont boil soup at home, cater.
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6. Use slow cooker.
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7. An electric cooker with timer.
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To punish myself, I stop cooking and stuff myself with cheese cake for lunch, tea, dinner and supper.

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Errr......Eeee.... I dont think I will ever want cheese cake again for a long, long time.

Shopping, Shopping, Shopping For Christmas, For New Year

Every now and then I would shop for clothes for my two sons be it formal or casual attire. Usually I would go to malls or shops to look for anything interesting that would also look good on my sons. Ooh well, that’s what all moms want right? For their sons to look better compared to others.
So yea, sometimes I walk around malls the whole day and can’t find something nice or something that catches my fancy. Sometimes I just find what I want but never able to pair it up with anything.
It really is a pain in the rear sometimes, you not able to get what you want. Getting my feet soar for nothing… until I got the internet. I can search for whatever I want, anytime I want. It’s a big big net world out there, if you get what I mean. There are lots of sites that I can look for clothes and I would never have to leave the comfort of my chair.

Of all the websites introduced by friends and I’ve been to, there is this particular one, Shopwiki really got my attention, that I will go back each time whenever I need. It’s like it has anything I need or want to look for. And the best part of it is, there are descriptions and ideas on what to pair each clothing with.

You can also search for other stuff that you want to buy. And it’ll lead you to the most possible site that you can purchase it from. Pretty nifty huh? Well, I’ve been using it for quite some time now and I think I won’t be able to find anything better anytime soon.